So I sent a bunch of emails explaining but basically to simplify life I have found a davids bridal dress that will save everyone time money and effort. Unless I hear that someone already purchased the other dress this is my final final final decision.
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_bycolor_detail.jsp?stid=1353&sid=12339&cfid=8
style number 8355 in oasis. I promise the color is way better in person.
I am ordering additional fabric so if anyone wants straps made they can. I know joy is going to. If anyone else wants to just let me know and I will send you enough of the fabric to do it. I love you guys. Thank you for putting up with my insanity